Redefining Intimacy in 2015

Unfortunately, most people are, now, addicted to technology, and have no patience whatsoever because of this instant-gratification world. I personally know a few who would have no problem spending a day or two without seeing their lover, but when it comes to their cellular telephone: it would be impossible! Their phone seems to be an extension of their body since they use it constantly.

That is why Sugar and I decided to redefine intimacy. At least once a week, we spend some time alone with no phone/internet connection. We use that time to talk about books that we read. Sometimes, we massage or feed each other. We do whatever pleases us, and it is always blissful.

I understand the fact that we are living in a fast-paced culture… It is not our fault, but it is our responsibility to do something about it. That is why I am inviting you to redefine intimacy with your partner as well. Tonight, turn off your phones and have dinner table conversation, for instance. Make use of the “little moments” to connect or reconnect. Over and over again. Because intimacy is a process, and it can definitely strengthen your bond.

What do you have to lose anyway?

Laugh Out Loud!

Sugar and I just enjoy cooking. When we are both at home, we like to prepare dinner together!

With that being said, I was very sick, last month; consequently, I was unable to help Sugar prepare the meal. Luckily, he decided to do it all by himself. We had on the menu: mashed potatoes, steak, and salad.

I was really looking forward to sharing this meal with him–to say the least…

Furthermore, it was already passed 8 o’clock, and I was getting very hungry. That is why I was so happy when my husband said that dinner was ready! He brought me my plate with a big smile on his face… However, once I realized that he had put some chopped onions in the mashed potatoes I became disappointed. Well, to tell you the truth, I started complaining about everything… until I remembered how lucky I was am, for I have a husband who cares about me; then, I just laughed out loud. Yes, I laughed at myself because I was not being appreciative of the fact that he cooked us dinner. Of course, that did not mean that I was going to eat all the mashed potatoes, but, at least, I stopped criticizing everything that he cooked that night!

My point is that we, human beings, like to complain–most of the time–about everything. We need to start appreciating one another more. We should also cherish the little things in life because they matter the most!

Don’t just know how special your significant other is: say it! I am not a perfect woman, but I try… And that’s all that matters to my husband.

Finally, always remember to pick your battles. Try not to take yourself too seriously; admit your mistakes. And just laugh out loud!

Ways to Cheer Yourself Up When [insert reason here]

1. Dinner for one! I personally think that cooking can be very therapeutic at times. Look for a new recipe online; have some wine, and prepare yourself a good meal. You deserve it! 🙂

2. Take a bubble bath! If you have never tried that, now is the time! Wine. Chocolate. Or fruit and cheese. Candles. Some music. And a good book.

3. Volunteer somewhere! Helping others can make you feel a little bit better about yourself. Then, here is one of my favorite quotes by Gandhi, “The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.”

4. Have some ice cream. In my opinion, there is never a bad time for ice cream!

5. Make a Bucket List. I, myself, have one, “30 Things To Do Before I Turn 30.”

6. Do something nice for a stranger, and tell he/she to Pay It Forward!

Feel free to share your own idea (s). Thanks!