Our Relationship Is Not The Same Anymore

Yes, you read that right.

When we got married last year, we thought that was it. We thought so many things to tell you guys the truth, so you can imagine our surprise when we started realizing that our relationship was not the same anymore…

A few days ago, I was driving us back home, and Sugar touched my hand and said, “You are the one for me…” I just melted—figuratively, of course. I knew that he meant it.

Last year, I was just a girl saying yes, but now, I know I am his everything. Not because he says so, but because I know so. His actions constantly prove it to me!

My point is that I am grateful for the good and bad times, and the so-so ones.  Thanks to them, our relationship is not the same anymore: it is stronger!

Getting married is not it, staying married is! Respecting your partner and being patient with him/her are vital components of a healthy marriage. Make sure that your own relationship is not static. You should be able to grow closer to your spouse and create a deeper love.

Please, feel free to share your thoughts! 🙂

My Goddess Journey

I have just started on what will be a long journey; I am learning how to embrace the woman I am. It may sound cliché, but I am really discovering who I am as a human being and as a young spouse. With my qualities and imperfections. My temple/body and my dreams.

Why did I add my marital status to the list? Well, being married influences the choices and the decisions that I make on a daily basis. And oh, marriage did change me! Let me explain myself… A year ago, I would only wear lingerie for a special occasion, but now I find each day special. I have come to the realization that I ought to pamper myself more often, so that is why I am currently in the process of having a vanity area in our bedroom. I also enjoy buying new stuff for the house, and establishing family traditions. I call going after whatever brings happiness and inner peace into my life–pursuit of happiness: my Goddess Journey!

I think that it is safe to say that I am on this personal journey thanks to my loving husband. He always talks about how perfect I am. And please, note that I am aware that he does not mean it literally because… I am human! Anyway, my point is that having him embrace who I am made me want to discover the woman he sees in me and loves so dearly!

I have to admit that my Goddess Journey has been such a great initiative so far, for it has helped me feel so worthy of love and reconnect with nature. The latter is definitely one of the reasons why I started my own business Helena’s Treat™. I am captivated by nature (crystals, fauna and flora, etc.), and that causes me to enjoy swimming, horseback riding, kayaking, snorkeling, just to name a few. Furthermore, I am not just any creature: I am the daughter of a King, and since my temple/body is also His, I take good care of it and say nice things to it. It is no one’s responsibility but mine to please my inner goddess! And guess what? I can guarantee you that this journey is already helping me grasp who I aspire to be in the future!

Now, ask yourself: what type of woman do I want to be? Then, use the love that this special person–God, your mother, your partner, or a friend–has for you as a “foundation.” Knowing that somebody loves you unconditionally will encourage you to believe in yourself, and it will help you  grow as a human being. I strongly believe that it is important for you to go on your own Goddess Journey–if you haven’t started already, of course–because there is always room for improvement!

I, myself, know that I want to be a woman that my daughter or son would be proud of!

Cheers to this new journey! ❤

P.S: I cannot wait to share with you all what I plan on doing for my birthday! 😀

3 Things Not To Say to Married Couples

1. When will you finally have a kid?

In my opinion, it can be annoying and/or hurtful, especially if they never want to have kids, or they are infertile, etc. Please, be tactful, and try not to judge them!

2. Don’t tell your spouse!

Well, good luck with this one! :p

3. Which one of you is the boss in the relationship?

Sugar gets this one a lot. I, myself, have always wondered why people tend to ask this question. Why?

 

Please, feel free to leave me a comment below! 🙂